chore: upgrade to Node.js 25.2.1

- Update .nvmrc to Node 25
- Update all Dockerfiles to use node:25-alpine
- Update package.json engines to >=25.0.0
- Update CI/CD workflows for Node 25
- Update @types/node in packages
- Fix ESLint config to use ES module syntax
- Update OpenTelemetry imports for compatibility

All services tested and working with Node.js 25.2.1

package.json

@@ -19,15 +19,15 @@
     "typecheck": "pnpm -r typecheck"
   },
   "devDependencies": {
-    "@types/node": "^20.11.0",
-    "typescript": "^5.3.3",
-    "prettier": "^3.2.4",
+    "@types/node": "^25.0.0",
     "eslint": "^8.56.0",
-    "turbo": "^1.11.2"
+    "prettier": "^3.7.4",
+    "turbo": "^1.11.2",
+    "typescript": "^5.9.3"
   },
   "engines": {
-    "node": ">=20.0.0",
+    "node": ">=25.0.0",
     "pnpm": ">=8.0.0"
   },
   "packageManager": "pnpm@8.15.0"
-}
+}